Personally, I watch both, prefer Tanked, as I think it has a little less manufactured drama. I was also raised in NJ, so Wade and Brett remind me of my younger years.
This debate has been on many forums since Tanked premiered. Last year, the forums were a buzz with talk of proper set up, cycling, etc. I've read after the show is filmed they go back in, remove the fish and cycle the tanks. I'm sure something like that is done, as both shows wouldn't have much of a business if they set up the tanks, and let the fish die. In any event, the show is for entertainment, not sure how much educational value is considered by either show.
Manufactured resin reefs are NOT unacceptable, fish-only tanks (FO or FOWLR) are VERY common and VERY accepted practice in the salt water world. There is a big push in the reef world to use dry live rock now, mined from underground caverns, or manufactured live rock, which is dry rock put into the ocean and "cooked" until it's live, to save our natural reefs resources. Some also use fish safe material and make their own rock.
As far as who I'd rather party with, def Danny of Counting Cars. I mean, he's adorable...duh :lol: